{"id":3869,"date":"2014-02-24T12:00:20","date_gmt":"2014-02-24T17:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/?p=3869"},"modified":"2014-02-23T12:52:11","modified_gmt":"2014-02-23T17:52:11","slug":"sister-weekend-2014","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/sister-weekend-2014\/","title":{"rendered":"Sister Weekend, 2014"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It seems like every time we&#8217;re supposed to get together with my family, Lilian and I find some <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/?p=3836\">new<\/a> and\/or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/?p=3798\">horrible<\/a> way of getting sick and have to cancel all of our plans. It had been <em>months<\/em> since I&#8217;d seen all of my sisters, so we decided to rectify this situation by meeting up on Presidents Day Weekend.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re a relatively far-flung family, so we split the difference and rented a house in Old Saybrook, CT. It should have been an easy drive, but Kristian and I left just a <em>little<\/em> too late and ended up getting caught in a snowstorm. As in, we were driving along on the highway and all of a sudden we&#8217;re watching cars sliding off the road left and right. There was a state trooper fishtailing right in front of us. Good times.<\/p>\n<p>Even that wouldn&#8217;t have been too bad (we have snow tires and Kristian is a great driver), but Lilian woke up from her nap&#8230; in what I an only refer to as a <em>mood<\/em>. As in there was much wailing and gnashing of teeth and throwing of toys. I ended up flinging myself into the backseat in a desperate attempt to amuse her\/distract her from her agony. I made faces, I gave her snacks, I invented games. But she was having <em>none<\/em> of it. I won&#8217;t go into the depths that I plumbed in my desperate attempt to make her happy.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s just say that we arrived at our rental house with a soaking wet, half-naked baby. And my family was a <em>little<\/em> concerned.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Why is your baby soaking wet? And&#8230; half-naked?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No comment. DON&#8217;T JUDGE ME!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>But, hey, worth it. I was just so happy to be with my family, all under one roof. We had a glorious dinner, even if I was forced to decline the ice cream afterwards (damn you, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/?p=3860\">diet bet<\/a>!). Lilian got to play with her cousins. I got to make fun of my sisters.<\/p>\n<p>We then proceeded to have what you might call a &#8220;rough&#8221; night. As in, Lilian woke up sometime in the middle of the night and screamed and screamed and wouldn&#8217;t go back to sleep again. I think it was all the ploughs going up and down the street. Plus, she was probably a little weirded out to be sleeping in a strange location. Normally, we would have done some things to soothe her, and then put her back into her crib. She would have fussed for a bit, but eventually fallen back asleep. But we were in close quarters with nine other people, and we didn&#8217;t want to disturb them. So, we kept trying other things.<\/p>\n<p>Long story short, we should have just let her fuss herself back to sleep. All we did was prolong everybody&#8217;s misery.<\/p>\n<p>(You try letting your kid scream in a house full of people).<\/p>\n<p>The good thing about having a rough night in a house full of people? The next morning, when you look like death warmed over, there is a high likelihood that someone will take pity on you and offer to watch your child while you go back to bed for a nap.<\/p>\n<p>(My stepdad is truly a king among men).<\/p>\n<p>After a nice long nap, Kristian I woke up to the sweet smells of brunch. As part of our diet bet, my sister and I agreed that we could have carb-y breakfast (pancakes, french toast, waffles, etc) once a month. I was happy that I decided that my monthly breakfast would be sister weekend!<\/p>\n<p>After cleanup, Lilian was more than ready for a nap. Kristian decided to hang out with her at the house, and I went off with the rest of the family to check out the seashore. There wasn&#8217;t a beach we could walk on, but there was a little area right on the water where we had ourselves a snowball fight.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Untitled by hopers, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/hopers\/12603979765\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" alt=\"Untitled\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm4.staticflickr.com\/3714\/12603979765_cf89dc4517.jpg?resize=500%2C333\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t have any pictures (I was too busy having fun), but we were lucky enough to meet a local family that was sledding on a nearby hill. They were kind enough to share their sleds with us. I am now really looking forward to taking Lilian sledding when she&#8217;s a little bigger.<\/p>\n<p>We headed back to the house, where Lilian was just waking up. We spent the rest of the evening having quality family time. We lit a fire in the fireplace. It was super cozy.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Untitled by hopers, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/hopers\/12604016155\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" alt=\"Untitled\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm8.staticflickr.com\/7351\/12604016155_a7bcfb8a26.jpg?resize=500%2C333&#038;ssl=1\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The weekend was over all too soon. A last little bit of family time, and then we all had to head back home. I hope that we can do this again soon. I love spending time with everyone.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Untitled by hopers, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/hopers\/12603818783\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" alt=\"Untitled\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm4.staticflickr.com\/3690\/12603818783_e07c34f292.jpg?resize=500%2C333\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>We all managed to catch the same nasty cold, so I&#8217;ve spent the last week or so recuperating. <em>Worth it<\/em>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It seems like every time we&#8217;re supposed to get together with my family, Lilian and I find some new and\/or horrible way of getting sick and have to cancel all&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[8,34,4,2,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3869","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family","category-kristian","category-photos","category-random","category-travel"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p5yggS-10p","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3869","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3869"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3869\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3873,"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3869\/revisions\/3873"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3869"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3869"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3869"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}