{"id":3713,"date":"2013-05-20T12:00:12","date_gmt":"2013-05-20T16:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/?p=3713"},"modified":"2013-05-19T22:06:41","modified_gmt":"2013-05-20T02:06:41","slug":"gradumucation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/gradumucation\/","title":{"rendered":"Gradumucation!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been dreaming about this moment for a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/?p=3218\">long time<\/a>. Yesterday, I put on a silly outfit, they read my name out loud, and I got to walk across a stage while people applauded politely.<\/p>\n<p>(We will not talk about the part where I almost forgot to turn around for the picture).<\/p>\n<p>(Or the part where I <em>did<\/em> turn around, but I was standing in the wrong spot, so our department chair had to hiss at me to move).<\/p>\n<p>I forgot to go pick up my diploma from the administration building. I&#8217;m assuming that they&#8217;ll send it to me later. Because if they don&#8217;t? Well, that sure was a waste of five years of my life.<\/p>\n<p>This is what my life is like these days: I spent Lilian&#8217;s morning nap watching youtube videos that teach you how to put short hair into side buns. I think I did a pretty good job with it. Unfortunately, I did not do such a great job of taking pictures of it.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Untitled by hopers, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/hopers\/8754823303\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" alt=\"Untitled\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm6.staticflickr.com\/5341\/8754823303_d388dc1510.jpg?resize=500%2C375\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Along those same lines, I very carefully charged my camera battery this morning&#8230; and then didn&#8217;t pack an SD card. Because, I am simultaneously awesome and completely incompetent. Kristian was able to use the built-in memory to take a few photos, one of which was this one:<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Untitled by hopers, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/hopers\/8754805711\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" alt=\"Untitled\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm6.staticflickr.com\/5323\/8754805711_5ebe875e8f_n.jpg?resize=320%2C210\" width=\"320\" height=\"210\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I think it really captures the fact that I&#8217;m several inches taller than the other girls in my cohort. It also captures the fact that only three of us showed up yesterday.<\/p>\n<p>(Psssst. I&#8217;m the one in the middle)<\/p>\n<p>If you want to feel special, I highly recommend getting a graduate degree from a department that has a decent number of undergrads (in this case, I would guess about 50) and very few graduate students. We stood up for our part of the ceremony and you could <em>really<\/em> see the look in everyone&#8217;s eyes as they turned to each other and said&#8230;.. &#8220;This department has grad students? Huh, I guess you do learn something new every day.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Lilian was a little angel. Possibly because she had her Dad and two sets of Grandparents to look out for her. It really was a proud moment to hold her afterwards.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Untitled by hopers, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/hopers\/8754807351\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" alt=\"Untitled\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm6.staticflickr.com\/5338\/8754807351_8f8f44edae_n.jpg?resize=320%2C240\" width=\"320\" height=\"240\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>(She&#8217;d better be wearing one of those for realsies in about 20 years).<\/p>\n<p>This picture pretty much sums up the past year or so of my life.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Untitled by hopers, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/hopers\/8755945816\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" alt=\"Untitled\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm8.staticflickr.com\/7395\/8755945816_278c47f90a_n.jpg?resize=234%2C320\" width=\"234\" height=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Beans graduated yesterday as well (yay!) and her brother threw her a BBQ to celebrate. It was right near campus, so we walked over after my ceremony. It was f-f-f-f-reezing by that point, but we stuck it out for a couple of hours. Good food, good friends, good weather. Two out of three ain&#8217;t bad. I had both a cupcake and an ice cream. Because all of her friends from nutrition school had left by then, so there was nobody there to judge me. And because I just wrote a goddamn 80+ page thesis while taking care of a human baby. And I wanted my cake and eat ice cream too.<\/p>\n<p>This has been a long journey for me. (We won&#8217;t talk about the fact that you can often earn a doctorate in five years). I wasn&#8217;t always sure that I&#8217;d make it. But, with a lot of help from family, friends, and my husband, I did it. And I&#8217;m really proud. It wasn&#8217;t always easy, but I almost always enjoyed it. You know you&#8217;re a history nerd when you finish your thesis, go &#8220;yay! I can read for fun now!&#8221; and promptly start reading&#8230; history books.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been dreaming about this moment for a long time. 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