{"id":3564,"date":"2012-12-07T12:20:20","date_gmt":"2012-12-07T17:20:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/?p=3564"},"modified":"2012-12-07T15:14:38","modified_gmt":"2012-12-07T20:14:38","slug":"better","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/better\/","title":{"rendered":"Better?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When you call up your <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vivasnailmail.com\/\">sister <\/a>to wish her a happy birthday and she uses her phone call as an opportunity to talk about how worried she is about you&#8230; I guess that means it&#8217;s time to update everyone and let them know that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/?p=3559\">things<\/a> are getting better.<\/p>\n<p>Am I a paragon of relaxation and sufficient sleep? Hellllls no. Am I less likely to cause an accident and be prosecuted for <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2012\/12\/08\/nyregion\/ophadell-williams-driver-in-fatal-bus-crash-found-not-guilty-of-manslaughter.html?hp&amp;_r=0\">drowsy driving<\/a>? You betcha.<\/p>\n<p>Lilian is still getting up a few times a night to feed. I am still the person getting up with her. She goes to bed a little earlier now, but that just means 9:30pm instead of 10pm. I am still getting up at 5:30am to go to work. I am definitely not getting enough sleep. But, she&#8217;s sleeping a little bit better and Kristian has been finding ways to help me sleep in on weekends. I still daydream about napping, but I am no longer a complete and utter zombie.<\/p>\n<p>I am still stubbornly sticking with exclusive boob juice (if we can call it soy-milk, I can call it boob juice). But that&#8217;s just because switching to formula at daycare wasn&#8217;t going to solve the underlying issue, which is that Lilian is not a fan of bottles. There is <em>one<\/em> woman at daycare who can give her a bottle. When Ms. O takes her lunch break? Whoever is covering for her has to try and distract Lilian, because she refuses to eat until Ms. O comes back. She sortof takes a bottle from my parents. She doesn&#8217;t really take bottles from Kristian.<\/p>\n<p>We had a\u00a0 bit of a breakthrough yesterday. If you call &#8220;Lilian finished her last bottle at 3pm and then screamed her head off until I showed up until 6pm&#8221; a breakthrough. Which I do, because it meant that she drank everything that I sent with her. Before yesterday, I&#8217;d been taking home a whole lot of bottles with more than a little bit of boob juice left\u00a0 in them. Of course, yesterday <em>would<\/em> be the one where I decided to take advantage of daycare being open until 6pm. I could have picked up LJ earlier, but I opted for a long run and an uninterrupted hot shower instead.<\/p>\n<p>(Mother of the year, there).<\/p>\n<p>Our doctor tells me that Lilian is most likely in a sleep regression that hits all babies her age, and that it should be over soon. That, coupled with the fact that Lilian just might eat everything I send with her to daycare, gives me hope that there&#8217;s a light at the end of this tunnel. And that the light is not a trashcan fire started by an angry hobo.<\/p>\n<p>So, I think I&#8217;m doing better.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you call up your sister to wish her a happy birthday and she uses her phone call as an opportunity to talk about how worried she is about you&#8230;&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[8,52,2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3564","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family","category-gummybear","category-random"],"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/s5yggS-better","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3564","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3564"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3564\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3568,"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3564\/revisions\/3568"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3564"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3564"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hoperoth.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3564"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}